tobitastic replied to your post: i was wondering if you knew a less dysphoric way to have oral sex? i saw your masturbation post and wodnered if it could be done by another person as well?

I get really good mileage by asking partners to go down on my perineum, especially with a lot of pressure. It feels great and can be very anti-dysphoric for me. The can give my clit passing attention, ignore it, or let me play with it as I choose.

Good tips right there! On the odd occasion I do feel dysphoric about “traditional” handling (mouthening?) of my anatomy? I find it can be helpful if my partner either does not put my clit into her mouth at all, or only takes in the very tip, like one might a smaller clit. The same goes for my labia (what some call their “balls”). Tongues are awesome and can be used all over the place.

I like the phrase “anti-dysphoric”. It shows that some actions aren’t just dysphoria-neutral, but actually relieve dysphoria. Thanks Tobi!

You’re welcome!